This is my first post. I finally decided to make this blog to capture my wedding preparations. Karena pengen nge-post di instagram atau Path kata orang masih pamali karena belum dilamar, while actually we have started our wedding preparations :)
I’m Neysa, 22 yo woman living in Jakarta, and my soon-to-be-husband, Adrie, 24 yo man living in Jogja. Yes, we are in a long distance relationship, and wish to be married soon and live in the same roof.
Firstly, I want to share how we both accidentally met.
He’s a long friend of mine. Actually back then in junior high school, we didn’t know each other really well.
After 7 years separated in our own lives, I believe it’s Allah’ big plan, sending His angels to guide him to find me. One day, he added me on Path. Randomly. Luckily I remember this big guy, this ‘it’ guy :P
After some efforts from giving comments on Path, asking my phone number, and having some awkward convos, on January 2013, we finally met again for the first time.
Days went by and I fell for him even deeper everyday. His phone calls, messages, surprises… I never ask for this, beyond my wishes and expectations. He’s surely the sweetest! I realized he’s the one I’ve been searching for. A figure that I fully respect, a tough leader, a great speaker, a humorous, and a kindest lover.
Maybe sometimes I’m anxious about the distance, 600 km that separates us, most of our times.
I miss him a lot. I miss him when something really good happens, because he’s the one I want to share it with. I need him when something is troubling me, because he’s the one who understands me most. I want him to be here when I laugh and cry, because I know that he’s the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. But whenever I start feeling sad because I miss him, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss…
He successfully convinced me that this sorrow is only temporarily, and will end soon. He helps me to be strong, and why wouldn’t we give it a try?
Insha Allah April 2015 <3